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Islam => Etiquette => Topic started by: Suyuti1 on Jun 07, 2025, 02:42 PM

Title: Modesty (Ḥayā) in Character and Dress
Post by: Suyuti1 on Jun 07, 2025, 02:42 PM
Modesty (ḥayā) is a central virtue in Islam — it protects a Muslim's soul, behavior, and reputation. It includes shyness before Allah, humility in conduct, and decency in dress. Modesty is not weakness; it is a strength that leads to Paradise.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

 "الْحَيَاءُ شُعْبَةٌ مِنَ الْإِيمَانِ"
"Modesty is a branch of faith."
— Sahih al-Bukhari (9), Sahih Muslim (35)



Allah commands both men and women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty:

 قُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِمْ وَيَحْفَظُوا فُرُوجَهُمْ...
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their private parts..."
— Surah An-Nur (24:30)
وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ...
"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze..."
— Surah An-Nur (24:31)



The Prophet ﷺ was the most modest of people. Aisha (RA) said: "He was shyer than a virgin behind her curtain." — Sahih Muslim (2320)

The Sahaba and Sahabiyyat (female companions) dressed and behaved with dignity, avoiding extravagance or attention-seeking.

True ḥayā preserves one's honor, protects society, and is a sign of spiritual awareness and nearness to Allah.