The Etiquette Of Giving And Receiving Advice In Islam

Suyuti1 · Jun 07, 2025, 03:10 PM

Giving and receiving advice (nasīḥah) is a vital part of Islamic brotherhood and personal growth. Islam encourages sincere, gentle advice delivered with wisdom, and the humble acceptance of advice for self-improvement.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

"النَّصِيحَةُ دِينَةٌ، وَالنَّصِيحَةُ لِلَّهِ وَلِكِتَابِهِ وَلِرَسُولِهِ وَلِأَئِمَّةِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ وَعَامَّتِهِمْ"
"Advice is a debt; advice is for Allah, His Book, His Messenger, the leaders of the Muslims, and the general Muslim community."
— Sahih Muslim (55)

When giving advice, kindness and discretion are key. The Qur'an instructs:

وَلَا تَجْعَلْ يَدَكَ مَغْلُولَةً إِلَىٰ عُنُقِكَ وَلَا تَبْسُطْهَا كُلَّ الْبَسْطِ فَتَقْعُدَ مَلُومًا مَّحْسُورًا
"Do not make your hand tied to your neck, nor stretch it forth completely, lest you become blamed and destitute."
— Surah Al-Isra (17:29)

Receiving advice requires humility, patience, and an open heart. The Sahaba would consult each other and the Prophet ﷺ, accepting correction without offense.

True nasīḥah nurtures hearts, strengthens communities, and helps individuals follow the straight path. It is a trust that benefits both giver and receiver.

The Etiquette Of Giving And Receiving Advice In Islam

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