Speaking Kindly in Islam (Ḥusn al-Kalām)

Suyuti1 · Jun 09, 2025, 03:17 PM

Kind and respectful speech is a hallmark of the Muslim's character. Islam teaches that words have weight — they can heal or harm, bring reward or punishment. Speaking gently is an act of worship that reflects sincerity and taqwa.

Allah commands:

وَقُولُوا۟ لِلنَّاسِ حُسْنًۭا
"And speak kindly to people."
— Surah Al-Baqarah (2:83)

And in addressing even a tyrant like Pharaoh, Allah told Musa (AS):

فَقُولَا لَهُۥ قَوْلًۭا لَّيِّنًۭا
"And speak to him with gentle speech..."
— Surah Ṭā-Hā (20:44)

The Prophet ﷺ said:

"وَالْكَلِمَةُ الطَّيِّبَةُ صَدَقَةٌ"
"A kind word is charity."
— Sahih Muslim (1009)

He ﷺ was never harsh in speech. He addressed people according to their understanding and never used foul language. Even when correcting mistakes, he did so with mercy.

Aisha (RA) reported that the Prophet ﷺ spoke clearly and calmly, so anyone could understand him.

Abu Bakr (RA) was known for his gentle voice and kind words, even toward enemies. He exemplified speech that softened hearts.

Kind speech beautifies the believer, builds bonds, and earns immense reward with Allah.

Speaking Kindly in Islam (Ḥusn al-Kalām)

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